Q- Ano po kaya ang source or pinagmumulan ng ugali ng ibang church people na pag may nabalitaang nagkamali, lalu na sa area ng sex like adultery, pre-marital pregnancy, etc ay takam na takam at sarap na sarap silang mag-chismis?
A - 1. Envy? Naiinggit sila sa sexcapades ng iba at ipinagbubunyi nila pag napahiya o gusto nilang ipahiya? Marami sa mga sexually deprived ay chismosa. Kasi ay tigang, uhaw at salat sa kasiyahan. Kung masaya ang tao, wala na sigurong masyadong energy na sasayangin sa negative activities like chismis.
2. Inferiority Complex? In many areas of their lives they feel inferior to to others. Ngayon, pag may nadapa, at least ay mayroon na silang daig, talo. They could have a false sense of superiority.
3. Power trip? They could feel superior to and therefore more powerful than the victims of their gossip? By their tongue, they prove that they have the power to destroy others and they would gleefully wield that dark "power" to hurt, to wound and damage others. Just to use power.
In this area, the family and friends of the powerful are also the target.
People who could not attack a strong/powerful person would delight in attacking people who are close to that person.
4. Deep Inner Poverty? They are so deprived of values, self-respect and dignity that they would feast on other people's pain.
5. Guilt? When people are guilty, in deed or in thought, they feel good by condemning other people. Psychologists call this PROJECTION. To avoid self-condemnation, they initiate the condemnation of others. By making others look bad, they think they could look good.
Anything BUT Righteousness. Chismis cannot come from righteousness. So, pag chismosa, kahit pa nga nagbabanal-banalan at lalu kung nananakit ng kapwa, siguradong hindi righteous. Righteousness does not gossip.
- Ed Lapiz
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