Q - Sobra po akong nasaktan at na-shock when my son asked me to let him be. Bayaan ko na raw sya na magdecide sa buhay nya at gawin ang gusto nya. Napalaki, naturuan at na-train ko na raw sya and the time has come to let go of being a trainor-police-parent and become his friend naman? Ang sakit-sakit po; parang feeling ko ay hindi na ako needed/wanted ng anak ko.
A - Tahan na.
Mula pa nang isilang mo siya, nang malagot ang pusod/placenta mula sa womb, nagsimula na ang letting go. Ituloy mo na lang especially na sa kanya na nanggaling. It means he thinks it's time for you to let him become the individual that he is ...to see the effects of your parenting...to enjoy the good fruits...and endure and be patient with the aspects of his personaity and decisions that you probably will not want/like / agree with.
Ang anak ay anak. They don't stop becoming our children just because they want to take steps on their own. Let them claim their destiny --- their way.
Just always be there for your son. Pag kailangan ka nya...lalapitan ka rin nya.
Sigurado yon.
Set him free. Hindi lang sya ang lalaya; ikaw din. Take a break from being an omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent parent and get a life!
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