What you can say about saving for the retirement then?.. Are we just going to prioritize doing whatever we wanna do and think that retirement is not that important as today?. kasi, kami po ng asawa ko, we love to save money.

Q -What you can say about saving for the retirement then?.. Are we just going to prioritize doing whatever we wanna do and think that retirement is not that important as today?. kasi, kami po ng asawa ko, we love to save money.
A - 
Save some, spend some, proportionately to your priority. 
Parang sayang naman kung puro pang retirement na lang ang pera at wala nang naenjoy before retirement.
Lalu namang tragic kung puro spend now tapos walang retirement fund.

Paano po ba maging isang mabuting kristiyano? bakit po mahirap ang magpakabuti ngunit ganun na lang kadali gumawa ng mali, paano tayo maliligtas kung everyday of our life vunerable tayo magkasala.

Q - Paano po ba maging isang mabuting kristiyano? bakit po mahirap ang magpakabuti ngunit ganun na lang kadali gumawa ng mali, paano tayo maliligtas kung everyday of our life vunerable tayo magkasala.
A -
Dapat i-review ang concept of sin / kasalanan.
Sobrang daming gawa ang itinuturing ng religion na kasalanan.
Ang tanong, tama ba ang lahat ng opinion/teachings ng religion tungkol sa kasalanan? Kasalanan nga ba? 
MADALAS, MAS MAHIGPIT AT MAS MASUNGIT ANG RELIGION KESA SA DIOS MISMO.
Yan nga ang ginawa ni Jesus: binawasan at sobrang pinakonti ang mga batas at bawal kasi wala namang makasunod.
At dahil na rin marami sa mga religious laws ay man-made; hindi naman talaga galing sa Diyos.

Sobra pong pakawala ang kapatid kong babae. Laging kumakabit kung kani-kaninong lalake at tatlong ulit na nga pong nagbuntis at nanganak pero hindi pa rin tumitigil. Lagi po syang nai-involved sa married men. Sobra na pong desmayado ang mother namin at pati kaming magkakapatid at gusto na po namin syang itakwil. Kahiya na pong sobra sa buong community. Bakit po kaya sya ganun, hindi tablan ng pangaral at hindi natututo kahit maraming beses nang nalaspag?

Q - Sobra pong pakawala ang kapatid kong babae. Laging kumakabit kung kani-kaninong lalake at tatlong ulit na nga pong nagbuntis at nanganak pero hindi pa rin tumitigil. Lagi po syang nai-involved sa married men. Sobra na pong desmayado ang mother namin at pati kaming magkakapatid at gusto na po namin syang itakwil. Kahiya na pong sobra sa buong community. Bakit po kaya sya ganun, hindi tablan ng pangaral at hindi natututo kahit maraming beses nang nalaspag?
A -
Victim din ang kapatid mo---victim ng kanyang personality, maybe ng genetics. Puede kasing naipon sa kanya ang mga ganyang ugali/ personality ng ibat-ibang nyong ancestors. Hindi naman napipili ng tao kung kani-kaninong genes ng mga ninuno ang lalabas sa kanyang personalidad.
Ang in-born traits are not chosen, so the person cannot change much. Or the person may not even see the reason/ need for change.

Q - Tito, Ang boyfriend ko po kasi kapag online sya sa facebook madalas hindi nya ako chinachat. Ako rin po naghihintay lang na sya yung umunang mag chat sa'kin. Dapat po ba akong magpapansin (chat-tin sya) araw-araw whenever online sya o manahimik nalang ako at hayaan syang gawin kung anong gusto nya kapag online sya? Baka kasi nag oover react as a gf lang ako. May nagsabi kasi sakin maski boyfriend/girlfriend pa hindi nyo pa pag-aari ang isa't isa. Totoo po ba yun?

Q - Tito, Ang boyfriend ko po kasi kapag online sya sa facebook madalas hindi nya ako chinachat. Ako rin po naghihintay lang na sya yung umunang mag chat sa'kin. Dapat po ba akong magpapansin (chat-tin sya) araw-araw whenever online sya o manahimik nalang ako at hayaan syang gawin kung anong gusto nya kapag online sya? Baka kasi nag oover react as a gf lang ako. May nagsabi kasi sakin maski boyfriend/girlfriend pa hindi nyo pa pag-aari ang isa't isa. Totoo po ba yun?
A -
Kahit naman asawa hindi pa rin pag-aari ng partner. :-)
Kung hindi ka china-chat, mas class na manahimik ka.
Baka may ibang gustong kausap sa oras na yon?
Although puede namang mag "hi" ka peron kung obvious na hindi sya ganung ka-eager maki-chat with you, let him be.

Q - Ano po ang pwedeng sabihin sa isang 20-year-old, good looking guy na gustong magpakamatay dahil iniwan ng GF?

Q - Ano po ang pwedeng sabihin sa isang 20-year-old, good looking guy na gustong magpakamatay dahil iniwan ng GF?
A -
Sabihin mo, palampasin lang nya ang difficult moment na ito.
Temporary lang ka mo ang pain nya. Lilipas din.
At marami pa ka mong candidates na maging GF nya.
Just survive the few days na mahirap ang pakiramdam.
Maglibang. Magdasal. Huwag magmukmok.

Listen to preachers / teachers / "gurus" if you want, but be the one to apply their teachings in your own life. Do not ask them

Listen to preachers / teachers / "gurus" if you want,
but be the one to apply their teachings in your own life.
Do not ask them 

Listen to preachers / teachers / "gurus" if you want, but be the one to apply their teachings in your own life. Do not ask them

Listen to preachers / teachers / "gurus" if you want,
but be the one to apply their teachings in your own life.
Do not ask them 
- WHAT to do in/with your life
- HOW to live your life.
You would only submit yourself to them as a robot.
Hear their teachings if you like
then decide for yourself
WHAT to do with
and
HOW to live your life.

Q - How can I join organized religion and still exercise my God-given free will?

Q - How can I join organized religion and still exercise my God-given free will?
A -
IF YOU WANT TO EXERCISE YOUR FREE WILL, 
DO NOT JOIN ORGANIZED, CORPORATE RELIGION AT ALL! :-)
Corporate religion is usually obsessed with control of people.
But if you really want to
- join one and still keep your free will
=
- have your cake and eat it too,
1. Join a group that does not control too much the member's personal will / lives.
One that "controls" only organized events and activities for the sake of order, but does not police the members' private lives.
2. Join a group but only minimally; do not get too active, too involved, too known. Especially, do not be a leader or a visible "worker" because people will scrutinize even your private life.
3. LISTEN TO THE TEACHINGS but
- study /examine
- decide by yourself, for yourself
HOW MUCH you would obey / submit yourself

While man is made in God's image

While man is made in God's image,
men also make God in their image.
Lumilikha ang tao ng imahen ng Diyos na kamukha at katulad nila.
Sa masungit na tao, masungit ang Diyos.
Sa mabait na tao, mabait ang Diyos.
Kanya-kanyang gawa ng imahen ng Diyos.
KASI ANG IMAHEN NG DIYOS NILA ANG TAGA-VALIDATE NG PAGKATAO NILA.

Persons, communities, civilizations create an image of their god that

Persons, communities, civilizations create an image of their god
that 
- represents them and their ideals.
- validates them.
- promotes their tribal. national or imperial interests.
- justifies and moralizes their wars with other tribes.
- makes them the center and star of the universe.
THEY MAKE THEIR GOD IN THEIR OWN IMAGE TO PROMOTE THEMSELVES.

Bakit po may mga church leaders na ayaw i-post sa internet ang worship services nila?

Q - Bakit po may mga church leaders na ayaw i-post sa internet ang worship services nila?
A -
Baka katwiran nila na puedeng hindi na dumalo personally ang mga tao?
Pag hindi sila dadalo personally, hindi sila
1. madi-disciple ng husto / tama?
2. makiki-fellowship ng personal?
Wala silang personal support group?
3. makakapag-serve;
sila na lang ang mapaglilingkuran at mapakakain
pero hindi sila makakatulong?
4. makakapag-support sa ministry?